furnessvale and bnsf734 have summed up the US situation well.
The US also makes extensive use of 'rail anchors' (to resist the rails sliding longitudinally through the fasteners) in situations where high tractive efforts/brake forces are common, like on steep gradients. A modern US six-axle freight loco can generate more than twice the low-speed tractive effort of a Class 66... Put two of those on the front of 10,000 tonnes of train and you can start to see why the rails might try to slide, as the train growls it's way up the hill at 10 mph, sanders on and in 'wheelcreep' (controlled wheelslip) mode, helpfully grinding away the railhead as it goes...
It's all about hauling freight as economically as possible.
Basically pretty much everything on US railways is bigger and heavier than anything in Europe. Maximum freight train speeds are similar to ours - 50-60 mph for heavy-haul, 70 mph for intermodal (but containers are commonly carried double-stacked in articulated sets of 'well' cars - effectively two 40 foot containers carried per 2 axles, so about double the axle load of intermodal in the UK).
32-33 tonnes is fast becoming the normal freight loco axle load in the US as well - making a 6-axle loco 196 tonnes.
On the other side of the 'track quality' coin, the track standards on branch lines and 'shortlines' can be pretty bad - the lowest Federal track standard is '10 mph excepted', which you could (tongue in cheek) translate into 'hopefully things won't fall off the track too often...'
As for the sanity of 125 mph passenger locos with 32 tonne axle loads - personally I have my doubts...