I do agree that personal responsibility is vitally important, not only for looking after our physical health, but our mental well-being as well, and perhaps as a society we do expect others to pick up the pieces too much.
But then isn't there also a collective responsibility to to look after each other?
At the end of the day, we are not creatures such as tigers, bears, alligators, etc, that have evolved the means to live solitary lives and still survive and thrive as a species. Provided they are not wiped out by human endeavors.
We are pack animals that are interdependent on each other. To my mind, we need to ask ourselves what kind of society we wish to live in. Do we want a society with a cutthroat, fragmented, everyone-for-themselves attitude? To say to those who are unable to thrive, at this time, for various reasons, to pull yourselves together, get on your bike, and get a job? And if you can't, well tough luck.
Because that is the attitude that Thatcher and many in the Tory party seem to portray.
I refer you to the Labour MP (can't remember her name, who gave the speech about people who had their benefits cut and then dying and Tory frontbenchers smirking and laughing).
I feel we need to ask ourselves what the role of government actually is. Is the government there to govern and serve the people, or to line their own pockets and feed their self-serving desire for power and the interests of their corporate friends?
Yes, people do need to take more responsibility for their health and lives. But then can we blame people for not doing so when just about every type of packaged food contains at least 1 type of sugar, I recently checked the ingredients of bread and there were 4 different types of sugar contained within, trans fat is allowed to be added to food, corn syrup is disguised as honey, and the government won't even stop supermarkets displaying chocolate on the counter?
If the government really cared about people's health then why do they subsidise farmers that use pesticides and yet give nothing to organic farming, meaning organic food is out of the reach of many people?
Then we have social media companies that employ psychologists to design their platforms so that people's brains receive dopamine hits and then become addicted. The media scare parents to the extent that they are afraid to send their kids outside and schools are teaching kids that ambition is wrong.
There are many other ways that the everyone for themselves ethos and the structure of society has led countless people to severely struggle with their mental health and many people have just given up on life.
And good luck trying to get help from mental health services where even suicidal teenagers are having to wait at least 8 or 9 months for treatment. The best most can help for is perhaps 6 or 12 sessions and a prescription from their GP.
Maybe the personal responsibility vs collective responsibility debate is for a separate topic, but in my eyes, Thatcher's government sowed the seeds of separation and self-serving attitudes.