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It's that strange time of year again, Christmas Day is past but we are still within the 12 traditional days of Christmas, which end on January 6th.

Anyway: one thing that really gets me about contemporary UK culture is the way that (on the one hand) we start thinking about Christmas in the middle of autumn and (on the other hand) all references to Christmas are seemingly banned from the very start of Boxing Day.

You'll never, these days, hear any even vaguely-Christmas-related song as soon as we get to Boxing Day, it seems. Not just the obvious ones, like Slade, Wham! and so on - but even the more traditional ones like Winter Wonderland, Frosty the Snowman and so on. You won't hear carols on the radio either. One would think they could play two or three an hour, like they did at the very start (!) of December. Personally I would move the period that they play Christmas songs forward by one week, so that rather than December 1-25, it's from about December 10 to the day before the first working day in January.

You also hear people saying "how was your Christmas?" as if it's January already. What about the twelve days; it's not just about December 25th! At the very least let's keep Christmas going until the day before the first working day in January!

I personally think this is a bit of a shame. The closing days of December have little else going for them, they are dark, wet and dull and nothing's going on, so why not keep the Christmas spirit going a bit longer? And in October and November, there are other things going on, like Halloween, Bonfire Night, Remembrance Day and enjoying the autumn leaves - so there's no point in focusing on Christmas so very early.

I know that I have posted at length on other threads bemoaning this, but I think it's another symptom of all that is wrong with contemporary UK culture. I emphasise the words "contemporary" and "UK" here, because it's not the case in some other countries and hasn't, if I remember right, always been the case here. I'm sure that back in the 80s we used to keep the Christmas spirit going a little longer - and certainly didn't start in October or the first half of November.

I've spent time in other European countries in this period of the year and much prefer what they do there. It's helped by the fact that New Year's Day and Twelfth Night are often bigger, traditional or religious celebrations, than they are here - and both those days have old customs associated with them. In at least two other European nations you'll still hear Christmas songs in the week following Christmas Day, and you'll often have special food traditions, for example, for New Year's Day. Contrast that to New Year in the contemporary UK. Nothing more than people being charged extortionate rates to go to venues and getting stupidly drunk. I know what I prefer.

Sadly in the contemporary UK you can forget the "Twelve Days of Christmas", it appears. Here is how the UK 21st Century Remix of the well-known song should be sung.

"On the First Day of Christmas my true love sent to me,
a partridge in a pear tree".

That's it. No turtle doves, French hens or calling birds. No Five Gold Rings. And certainly no ladies dancing or lords-a-leaping.

Just another way in which contemporary UK culture irritates me intensely - I won't mention the B-word or Boris-worship, as I've complained enough about those in other threads.

Anyway, seasonal rant over ;)
 
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Christmas is now a commercial festival. They have pushed you to go out and buy, buy, buy everything and anything by the end of the 25th, but then immediately after they move to the next thing to use as a money-making opportunity: how long before we see the Valentine’s Day overpriced tat appear? You were lucky if you did get an actual partridge in a pear tree, rather than a meme sent on Twitter.

I have also spent time abroad at Christmas, sometimes doing language courses, and have written a rant in several languages about how I hate it and expressing the feeling that why can’t those of the relevant religions be allowed to follow their observances in peace while the rest have a quiet meet up with the family.

Two final thoughts: the only time religion enters into my life at this time of year is when I frequently mutter, ’God, I hate Christmas.’

There is something very unChristmassy and slightly worrying in seeing a red squirrel running around in my back garden, as I just have.
 

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Two final thoughts: the only time religion enters into my life at this time of year is when I frequently mutter, ’God, I hate Christmas.’
I actually dread Christmas. For me, it's just now a celebration for high street shops.
 

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I enjoy the true meaning of Christmas - a chance to have a rest from work. And I enjoy it until I'm back working !

Given the large number of xmas songs, it's noticeable how few new year ones there are. "Happy New Year" by ABBA and "Same old Lang Syne Again" by Dan Fogelberg are two that I enjoy.
 

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Christmas is now a commercial festival. They have pushed you to go out and buy, buy, buy everything and anything by the end of the 25th, but then immediately after they move to the next thing to use as a money-making opportunity: how long before we see the Valentine’s Day overpriced tat appear? You were lucky if you did get an actual partridge in a pear tree, rather than a meme sent on Twitter.
I'd agree there, and in fact the commercial aspect of Christmas is to me the least important. To be fair I don't mind seeing Easter things early. Once we're into January then spring can't come fast enough.
There is something very unChristmassy and slightly worrying in seeing a red squirrel running around in my back garden, as I just have.
A red squirrel? Now I have to admit I would find that rather special, we don't get them round here. I've only seen them twice in my life: on one occasion in the Lake District and the other in Germany.

I have also spent time abroad at Christmas, sometimes doing language courses, and have written a rant in several languages about how I hate it and expressing the feeling that why can’t those of the relevant religions be allowed to follow their observances in peace while the rest have a quiet meet up with the family.
To be fair that does sound rather more like my experience of Christmas overseas.
 
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I like Christmas as a time guaranteed to be with my family, and now there are little ones to take into account it’s an even more pleasant festival as far as I’m concerned. However I tend to feel the festivities end on Christmas Day and I’m okay with that.
 

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It's that strange time of year again, Christmas Day is past but we are still within the 12 traditional days of Christmas, which end on January 6th.

Anyway: one thing that really gets me about contemporary UK culture is the way that (on the one hand) we start thinking about Christmas in the middle of autumn and (on the other hand) all references to Christmas are seemingly banned from the very start of Boxing Day.

You'll never, these days, hear any even vaguely-Christmas-related song as soon as we get to Boxing Day, it seems. Not just the obvious ones, like Slade, Wham! and so on - but even the more traditional ones like Winter Wonderland, Frosty the Snowman and so on. You won't hear carols on the radio either. One would think they could play two or three an hour, like they did at the very start (!) of December. Personally I would move the period that they play Christmas songs forward by one week, so that rather than December 1-25, it's from about December 10 to the day before the first working day in January.

You also hear people saying "how was your Christmas?" as if it's January already. What about the twelve days; it's not just about December 25th! At the very least let's keep Christmas going until the day before the first working day in January!

I personally think this is a bit of a shame. The closing days of December have little else going for them, they are dark, wet and dull and nothing's going on, so why not keep the Christmas spirit going a bit longer? And in October and November, there are other things going on, like Halloween, Bonfire Night, Remembrance Day and enjoying the autumn leaves - so there's no point in focusing on Christmas so very early.

I know that I have posted at length on other threads bemoaning this, but I think it's another symptom of all that is wrong with contemporary UK culture. I emphasise the words "contemporary" and "UK" here, because it's not the case in some other countries and hasn't, if I remember right, always been the case here. I'm sure that back in the 80s we used to keep the Christmas spirit going a little longer - and certainly didn't start in October or the first half of November.

I've spent time in other European countries in this period of the year and much prefer what they do there. It's helped by the fact that New Year's Day and Twelfth Night are often bigger, traditional or religious celebrations, than they are here - and both those days have old customs associated with them. In at least two other European nations you'll still hear Christmas songs in the week following Christmas Day, and you'll often have special food traditions, for example, for New Year's Day. Contrast that to New Year in the contemporary UK. Nothing more than people being charged extortionate rates to go to venues and getting stupidly drunk. I know what I prefer.

Sadly in the contemporary UK you can forget the "Twelve Days of Christmas", it appears. Here is how the UK 21st Century Remix of the well-known song should be sung.

"On the First Day of Christmas my true love sent to me,
a partridge in a pear tree".

That's it. No turtle doves, French hens or calling birds. No Five Gold Rings. And certainly no ladies dancing or lords-a-leaping.

Just another way in which contemporary UK culture irritates me intensely - I won't mention the B-word or Boris-worship, as I've complained enough about those in other threads.

Anyway, seasonal rant over ;)
I’m glad you’ve posted this as I have been having the same thought about the Christmas period post-Boxing Day. I love Christmas and the build-up to it, and for me this all starts at Advent. Having time off from work is also a part of this period that I really enjoy, and I always try to have time off over Christmas that means that I am not back in work until around the 3rd or 4th January.

About 4 or 5 years ago, I began to notice that Christmas seemed to stop completely with the arrival of Boxing Day. It was then that it dawned on me that Christmas songs and carols did not continue after Christmas Day. I am certain that it always wasn’t this way.

Growing up throughout the 1970’s and 1980’s I recall that Christmas did indeed continue up to some point around New Years Eve, certainly the playing of Christmas music and Christmas carols was still played beyond Boxing Day. It is something that I do wish would continue up until twelfth night. Having a celebration such as Epiphany / Three Kings to look forward to would certainly go down well in my book.
 

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I quite like the feeling of Christmas being around until a few days after New Year. It’s what we always did when I was a child and having the Christmas Tree lights on at the start of January does bring a bit of cheer to the gloomy weather.

I like Christmas generally but I often find it arrives slap bang in the middle of me starting to get jobs done around the place - having spent more time (and money) on going away in the summer and autumn.
 

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I’m glad you’ve posted this as I have been having the same thought about the Christmas period post-Boxing Day. I love Christmas and the build-up to it, and for me this all starts at Advent. Having time off from work is also a part of this period that I really enjoy, and I always try to have time off over Christmas that means that I am not back in work until around the 3rd or 4th January.

About 4 or 5 years ago, I began to notice that Christmas seemed to stop completely with the arrival of Boxing Day. It was then that it dawned on me that Christmas songs and carols did not continue after Christmas Day. I am certain that it always wasn’t this way.
I think it's got particularly bad in the last 5 to 10 years. There was a period (perhaps 20 years ago?) when they wound down the Christmas music fairly soon after the 25th but you'd still get it on Boxing Day. The ending of the Christmas spirit on Boxing Day does seem to be a very recent thing. I heard just one Christmas-related song on the whole of Boxing Day, a new one (?) by Cliff Richard.

To be fair, people keep decorations up until at least New Year's Day still, so I wonder if the main push to end Christmas prematurely is one driven by media and commerce rather than by people themselves.
Growing up throughout the 1970’s and 1980’s I recall that Christmas did indeed continue up to some point around New Years Eve, certainly the playing of Christmas music and Christmas carols was still played beyond Boxing Day. It is something that I do wish would continue up until twelfth night. Having a celebration such as Epiphany / Three Kings to look forward to would certainly go down well in my book.
That is what I remember myself, at the very end of the 70s and the 80s. You'd get Christmas music while it was still December, though to be fair it tended to disappear once we got into January. And Epiphany/Three Kings/Twelfth Night was more significant than it is now.

As I said above, my experience in other countries has been more like the UK "how it used to be". The problem now is that Christmas starts too early and ends too early. It's become misaligned with "how it should be" (i.e. the 12 days) and merely prolongs the dark and gloomy post-Christmas slump. And why anyone would want that, I don't know. Surely to keep our psychology up we need to reduce the period between Christmas and spring to the shortest practically possible.
 
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This is something I have trouble with too.

It takes me a long time to get into Christmas and then when I’m finally feeling festive, it all ends despite only being Boxing Day and despite not actually being over. The local Christmas Market has packed up, all festivities on the radio completely disappear and it feels weird listening to Christmas songs despite wanting to.
Like it’s been mentioned I tend to prefer what happens on the continent. I remember being in Belgium during the first week of January and the Christmas markets in Gent and Bruxelles were still on, giving a more lively and cheerful atmosphere.

I find Winter post-Christmas really difficult, so having festivities extended more does help I think.
 

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It's that strange time of year again, Christmas Day is past but we are still within the 12 traditional days of Christmas, which end on January 6th.

Anyway: one thing that really gets me about contemporary UK culture is the way that (on the one hand) we start thinking about Christmas in the middle of autumn and (on the other hand) all references to Christmas are seemingly banned from the very start of Boxing Day.

You'll never, these days, hear any even vaguely-Christmas-related song as soon as we get to Boxing Day, it seems. Not just the obvious ones, like Slade, Wham! and so on - but even the more traditional ones like Winter Wonderland, Frosty the Snowman and so on. You won't hear carols on the radio either. One would think they could play two or three an hour, like they did at the very start (!) of December. Personally I would move the period that they play Christmas songs forward by one week, so that rather than December 1-25, it's from about December 10 to the day before the first working day in January.

You also hear people saying "how was your Christmas?" as if it's January already. What about the twelve days; it's not just about December 25th! At the very least let's keep Christmas going until the day before the first working day in January!

I personally think this is a bit of a shame. The closing days of December have little else going for them, they are dark, wet and dull and nothing's going on, so why not keep the Christmas spirit going a bit longer? And in October and November, there are other things going on, like Halloween, Bonfire Night, Remembrance Day and enjoying the autumn leaves - so there's no point in focusing on Christmas so very early.

I know that I have posted at length on other threads bemoaning this, but I think it's another symptom of all that is wrong with contemporary UK culture. I emphasise the words "contemporary" and "UK" here, because it's not the case in some other countries and hasn't, if I remember right, always been the case here. I'm sure that back in the 80s we used to keep the Christmas spirit going a little longer - and certainly didn't start in October or the first half of November.

I've spent time in other European countries in this period of the year and much prefer what they do there. It's helped by the fact that New Year's Day and Twelfth Night are often bigger, traditional or religious celebrations, than they are here - and both those days have old customs associated with them. In at least two other European nations you'll still hear Christmas songs in the week following Christmas Day, and you'll often have special food traditions, for example, for New Year's Day. Contrast that to New Year in the contemporary UK. Nothing more than people being charged extortionate rates to go to venues and getting stupidly drunk. I know what I prefer.

Sadly in the contemporary UK you can forget the "Twelve Days of Christmas", it appears. Here is how the UK 21st Century Remix of the well-known song should be sung.

"On the First Day of Christmas my true love sent to me,
a partridge in a pear tree".

That's it. No turtle doves, French hens or calling birds. No Five Gold Rings. And certainly no ladies dancing or lords-a-leaping.

Just another way in which contemporary UK culture irritates me intensely - I won't mention the B-word or Boris-worship, as I've complained enough about those in other threads.

Anyway, seasonal rant over ;)
My late Grandmother always insisted that all Christmas decorations were to stay until Twelfth Night
We still do the same.
One advantage for us is that Christmas to New Year is historically very quiet business wise and we put our selves WFH on call rather than working in the office and are unlikely to do more than 1 hour on any day
 

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Betwixtmas is great for letting the full mental unwinding happen, even if it’s not as festive as it used to be. This relatively new ‘once Boxing Day hits everything is done’ approach feels like we’re veering towards a US style holiday season where Boxing Day doesn’t actually exist. Ideally we don’t continue down that road. For many of us this is the only opportunity to fully switch off in any given year.
 

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Betwixtmas is great for letting the full mental unwinding happen, even if it’s not as festive as it used to be. This relatively new ‘once Boxing Day hits everything is done’ approach feels like we’re veering towards a US style holiday season where Boxing Day doesn’t actually exist. Ideally we don’t continue down that road. For many of us this is the only opportunity to fully switch off in any given year.
Isn't that the case in Scotland where they take a second day off in Jan instead, or do they have 4 bank hols but lose one elsewhere?
 

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Betwixtmas is great for letting the full mental unwinding happen, even if it’s not as festive as it used to be. This relatively new ‘once Boxing Day hits everything is done’ approach feels like we’re veering towards a US style holiday season where Boxing Day doesn’t actually exist. Ideally we don’t continue down that road. For many of us this is the only opportunity to fully switch off in any given year.

Indeed, I think we need to veer the other way towards our continental neighbours, however such a suggestion is deeply politically incorrect in the early 2020s.

UK culture is becoming more and more anodyne and characterless with every passing year (not just in this matter, I could mention the decline in traditional pubs, amongst other things) and we really need to halt - and reverse - this.
 

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Indeed, I think we need to veer the other way towards our continental neighbours, however that is deeply politically incorrect in the early 2020s.

The UK is becoming more and more anodyne and characterless with every passing year and we really need to halt - and reverse - this.
Many of our continental neighbours make much more of Christmas Eve, including present giving, sleep it off on the 25th, and back to work on the 26th.
As for Christmas music, Bach's Christmas oratorio consists of six cantatas to be performed over the 12th days of Christmas, the last at Epiphany, the celebration of the arrival of the Magi
 

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This is something I have trouble with too.

It takes me a long time to get into Christmas and then when I’m finally feeling festive, it all ends despite only being Boxing Day and despite not actually being over. The local Christmas Market has packed up, all festivities on the radio completely disappear and it feels weird listening to Christmas songs despite wanting to.
Like it’s been mentioned I tend to prefer what happens on the continent. I remember being in Belgium during the first week of January and the Christmas markets in Gent and Bruxelles were still on, giving a more lively and cheerful atmosphere.

I find Winter post-Christmas really difficult, so having festivities extended more does help I think.

Very, very similar to my own thoughts. This November I remember feeling grumpy that people were going on about Christmas so much, now I feel grumpy people are not going on about Christmas!

The psychology of making Christmas earlier than it should be is hard to understand. In November you have Christmas to look forward to, so there's no need to start it early as it'll be here soon anyway, it's still autumn and the trees may still be showing full autumn colour, depending on the year. On Boxing Day you've still got four weeks or so of intense winter darkness, and just over two months until spring - so surely society would want to extend the festivities to reduce the post-Christmas gloom period?

Granted you can't really extend beyond Twelfth Night, but if you extend to Twelfth Night you are effectively losing 12 days of post-Christmas gloom. And once you get to Jan 25 or so the evenings start getting significantly lighter, so that makes it effectively only three weeks of midwinter darkness.
 
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Isn't that the case in Scotland where they take a second day off in Jan instead, or do they have 4 bank hols but lose one elsewhere?

The 1st and 2nd of January are bank holiday in Scotland, although this next year the 3rd is also included, due to Ne'er day being on a Sunday.
 

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I agree with the sentiment.

All December I'm stuck in the office while everyone's celebrating, then when I get some time off, it's "betwixtmas".
 

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I agree with the sentiment.

All December I'm stuck in the office while everyone's celebrating, then when I get some time off, it's "betwixtmas".

I was working pretty hard until Dec 23rd, too. It's good to get some time off now but dull, wet weather without even the cheer of a Christmas atmosphere on the radio means it isn't as great as it could be.

There aren't even many "special, but not-Christmas-specific" shows on the radio during the day (there are a few more in the evenings); for example I remember for several days at the end of 1989 one of the stations did a top 500 selling songs of the 80s show, which was a good listen.

Granted we're not at the end of a decade and I almost certainly wouldn't listen to a top 500 of the past 10 years, but hopefully you know what I mean.
 

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I was working pretty hard until Dec 23rd, too. It's good to get some time off but dull, wet weather without even the cheer of a Christmas atmosphere on the radio isn't exactly the best atmosphere.

Indeed. I want Slade and Shakey back !
 

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In Germany and other European countries they make a big deal out of "Dinner for One", a British comedy sketch shown on every channel every year on NYE in Germany to the point it's believed to be their most repeated show ever. Apparently in Denmark they stopped it for one year and TV hotlines broke down from a surge of complaints, causing them to keep it up.

While I'm somewhat guilty of having my own traditions, I try to follow this quote: "Tradition is a lazy excuse for not finding a better way." Christmas in general is full of traditions that are past their time and/or not the best way forward.
 

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I'm afraid I'd have to draw the line and say that once the 25th December has passed, it's over. Spare a thought for the poor sods that work in retail and have to put up with that music on a loop all day!
 

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I'm afraid I'd have to draw the line and say that once the 25th December has passed, it's over. Spare a thought for the poor sods that work in retail and have to put up with that music on a loop all day!

Well if they started the music on December 10th and not November 10th.....

In another demonstration of the phenomenon, it's of note that "The Snowman", according to Wikipedia, debuted on Boxing Day 1982. A sign that the rush to end Christmas early was not present at that time.
 
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In the United States, they have Halloween at the end of October, Thanksgiving at the end of November, so Christmas doesn't really get going until the end of November.

"Black Friday" originated there, and it signalled the start of the Christmas shopping season.

Now we have Black Friday over here, and I even heard one radio commercial this year which was wittering on about their discounts for "...this Black November..."

One of the reasons why the mention of Christmas finishes abruptly on Christmas Day is that it goes on for so long, with some shops having their Christmas merchandise on sale in September.

In Birmingham, the German Christmas market opened on 3rd November, with extortionate prices (£6 for one gluhwein, plus a £5 deposit for the glass) whereas in, er, Germany, the Weinachtsmarkt in Cologne didn't open until 21st November.

The Christian season of advent is a period of looking forward to Christmas and starts on the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day (27th November this year).

Even if you have no religious faith, it marks a point when it is appropriate to start looking forward to Christmas, and I think having no mention of Christmas before the start of Advent would mean that everyone is so thoroughly ****** off with it by Christmas Day that they would rather, to quote the Grumpy Guide To Christmas "..immerse their head in a bucket of festive reindeer snot that listen to Mistletoe And Wine by Cliff Richard.."
 

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Isn't that the case in Scotland where they take a second day off in Jan instead, or do they have 4 bank hols but lose one elsewhere?

The 1st and 2nd of January are bank holiday in Scotland, although this next year the 3rd is also included, due to Ne'er day being on a Sunday.
My partner, born and raised in Fife, claims that in her childhood (1960s), Christmas was quite a low-key event and mainly for those of a religious persuasion only; and that Hogmanay was the big family get-together and party time.
 

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My partner, born and raised in Fife, claims that in her childhood (1960s), Christmas was quite a low-key event and mainly for those of a religious persuasion only; and that Hogmanay was the big family get-together and party time.
When I was growing up in the 70s and 80s, Christmas was very much a thing here, but I can recall my dad saying that it wasn't that big a deal when he was young.

I did a quick web search earlier and came across this Wikipedia page:

Christmas became a Bank Holiday in Scotland, in 1871.

It goes on to say:
Christmas Day was made a public holiday in 1958 in Scotland, Boxing Day only in 1974. The New Year's Eve festivity, Hogmanay, was by far the largest celebration in Scotland. The giftgiving, public holidays and feasting associated with mid-winter were traditionally held between 11 December and 6 January. However, since the 1980s, the fading of the Church's influence and the increased influences from the rest of the United Kingdom and elsewhere, Christmas and its related festivities are now nearly on par with, or surpass, Hogmanay and Ne'erday. Edinburgh, Glasgow and other cities now have traditional German Christmas market from late November until Christmas Eve.

One of the sources the article cites is:
Why Christmas was banned in Scotland
There’s plenty to do in Scotland in the winter, and many Scots love getting in the festive spirit. But did you know that Christmas was banned here for almost four centuries?

Before the Reformation in 1560, Christmas in Scotland had been a religious feasting day. Then, with the powerful Kirk frowning upon anything related to Roman Catholicism, the Scottish Parliament passed a law in 1640 that made celebrating ‘Yule vacations’ illegal. The baking of Yule bread was a criminal act! Even after Charles II was restored to the throne, celebrating Christmas was frowned upon in Scotland for a long time – it wasn’t until 1958 that 25 December became a Scottish public holiday. Which is why Hogmanay and New Year celebrations in Scotland became so important.

So we can blame the Presbyterians!
 

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My partner, born and raised in Fife, claims that in her childhood (1960s), Christmas was quite a low-key event and mainly for those of a religious persuasion only; and that Hogmanay was the big family get-together and party time.

When I lived in Edinburgh in the 1980s, there was no Christmas market in Princes Street Gardens, and no Edinburgh's Hogmanay celebrations with fireworks and the closure of Princes Street to traffic.

In fact, Hogmanay was the one night of the year when most pubs closed early, around 10:30pm, so that people could get home and go to private parties.
 

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You'll never, these days, hear any even vaguely-Christmas-related song as soon as we get to Boxing Day, it seems. Not just the obvious ones, like Slade, Wham! and so on - but even the more traditional ones like Winter Wonderland, Frosty the Snowman and so on. You won't hear carols on the radio either. One would think they could play two or three an hour, like they did at the very start (!) of December. Personally I would move the period that they play Christmas songs forward by one week, so that rather than December 1-25, it's from about December 10 to the day before the first working day in January.
Thanks for the reminder. I've just dug out 'A Christmas Gift For You' (no gift though - it cost). 'Frosty' up next. It may not be on the radio, but it doesn't stop me playing it (to death).

You also hear people saying "how was your Christmas?" as if it's January already. What about the twelve days; it's not just about December 25th! At the very least let's keep Christmas going until the day before the first working day in January!
No-one who knows me is that stupid! However, if you want it to be Christmas, let it be Christmas. I have relatives who variously are suffering from flu, Covid and Strep A. I've suggested that they 'celebrate' Christmas when one of the other Churches do (6th and 7th January are quite common but there are others).
The only reason why its not in the shops anymore (and they were taking the signs down when I was in Sainsbury's on Christmas Eve) is they can't sell you stuff at inflated prices anymore. I'm hoping to get a few things at 'normal prices'.
 

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(Although there may be differences in some families & cultures)
Christmas is primarily a period to be enjoyed by young children.
Everything seems fresh, new and exciting. You get gifts, surprises, visit relatives and friends you may not have seen or months or years.

Then you get older. You have seen it all before. There is nothing fresh and new.
Your relatives start to depart this world; your friends move away, develop their own relationships and you rarely see them.
It is called growing up.
 
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