Ah. So your rants are based purely on TripAdvisor reviews and, I suspect, some kind of personal animus against the NYMR for some reason? (I would normally say “apologies if I’ve got that wrong” but your tone doesn’t invite reciprocal politeness.)
As others have said, you come up with no solutions, just that the NYMR should stop selling tickets when they “guess” a train is full. Firstly, with a day rover people might change their minds about which train to catch, thus leaving empty spaces that others could have filled. Secondly, and I have seen this many times with my own eyes, leisure travellers, especially car-orientated family groups who only use heritage railways (or indeed any railway) at peak family holiday times, will now often refuse to share a compartment or even a table/seating bay in an open carriage, preferring to stand (and then complain about it?). Thirdly, as has again already been mentioned, people in its southern catchment area are now using the NYMR as a way of having a day out in Whitby without having to find and pay for parking there, by parking at Pickering and taking the train (so, in fact, the NYMR is providing a genuine public transport service!) Given the gaps in the Whitby service, do you tell people turning up at Pickering on a busy school holiday day that they can’t join the first train to Whitby because the NYMR won’t let them stand, and they have to wait two hours - or do you treat them like adults capable of making choices (always a mistake with some elements of the British public) and tell them the train is very busy but if they still want to take the chance by standing they can?
Fourthly and finally, the British public constantly complain about crowded venues, lack of car parking, high fares and traffic jams during peak holiday times, all of which are always “other peoples’ faults” and never theirs for choosing to add themselves to the congestion.
What should the NYMR do? Well, the obvious answer is to revert to the system they used during Covid and just after: sell tickets only for specific outward and return trains, dictating exactly how long travellers can stay at their chosen destination with no flexibility. Which I remember went down like a bucket of cold vomit with the vociferous “enthusiast” community as showing that the NYMR had finally revealed itself as a pure commercial organisation simply selling train rides like a fairground attraction, and was no longer a “proper railway” in the great tradition of “the movement”. They just can’t win can they?
Richard Taylor
(Full disclosure: NYMR Life Member, but not otherwise active with the railway)