I have ASD, I get severe anxiety too and if I am in a situation where plans change I do go into meltdown, the older I get it does get harder to control and I am nearly 40, I have 2 sons, one is mild diagnosis and the other is close to severe. The youngest (severe) has to wear ear defenders at times that things become overwhelming but he still need distractions in order to avoid a meltdown.
Knowing all this, you could ask the question, what if the reason for going 2 hours early into Padd was because the teen was showing signs of a meltdown approaching so thought it would be best to attempt to get on an earlier train.
As for those saying serial complainer, when she says a "7 hour train journey with an unhappy autistic teen", that could mean said teen will now be either in meltdown mode for the whole journey because plans have been changed or close to meltdown.
Let me explain it for you, if plans change for the majority of people here, you may huff or you may find the plan change actually more convenient, however I do not, I have most of the time spent the night before (if it is a long term plan) unable to sleep because my brain is following every step and outcome of said plan and when that changes I cannot cope and at times I have shut down, even same day plans that change throw me into chaos, I know plans change and even though I can prepare myself for it, when it happens my brain cannot cope with the input.
We have seen it with Tanyalee, if you use the disabled card, it gets you further, I remember I was told by a doctor once to use it as people listen to you. How do we know that this woman hasn't had years of doctors saying there is nothing wrong with her teen and having issues with people saying that this teen is just a bad kid (usual for ignorant people) that now she is able to shut some of these people up, as when it is official then people sit up and listen.
Knowing all this, you could ask the question, what if the reason for going 2 hours early into Padd was because the teen was showing signs of a meltdown approaching so thought it would be best to attempt to get on an earlier train.
As for those saying serial complainer, when she says a "7 hour train journey with an unhappy autistic teen", that could mean said teen will now be either in meltdown mode for the whole journey because plans have been changed or close to meltdown.
Let me explain it for you, if plans change for the majority of people here, you may huff or you may find the plan change actually more convenient, however I do not, I have most of the time spent the night before (if it is a long term plan) unable to sleep because my brain is following every step and outcome of said plan and when that changes I cannot cope and at times I have shut down, even same day plans that change throw me into chaos, I know plans change and even though I can prepare myself for it, when it happens my brain cannot cope with the input.
We have seen it with Tanyalee, if you use the disabled card, it gets you further, I remember I was told by a doctor once to use it as people listen to you. How do we know that this woman hasn't had years of doctors saying there is nothing wrong with her teen and having issues with people saying that this teen is just a bad kid (usual for ignorant people) that now she is able to shut some of these people up, as when it is official then people sit up and listen.