Not everyone has self-control
Then why should we feel sorry for them?
Boo hoo, all those poor overweight people, what victims they are. It's not their fault, etc, etc.
Not everyone has self-control
From my experiences in the NHS it sounds eminently believable.
I'd been working in the NHS for about twenty years before I heard the word 'bariatric'. Whilst these conditions are there, they are not exactly common. Those of us who are in late middle age will remember a time when it was rare or unusual to see overweight people, especially amongst the young. In each year at school in the 1960's there was, on average, probably one overweight boy or girl in each year. The boy was always nicknamed 'Tank' and generally would play as a prop forward. They weren't unhealthy. I have a complete school photograph from 1969 - only one pupil looks significantly overweight from a total of about 400. I cannot believe that would be the same now.
Then why should we feel sorry for them?
Boo hoo, all those poor overweight people, what victims they are. It's not their fault, etc, etc.
Then why should we feel sorry for them?
Boo hoo, all those poor overweight people, what victims they are. It's not their fault, etc, etc.
Excuses, excuses. Always excuses.
So we should just go "f*** you" to people who are, by definition, unable to help themselves?
Yeah, I'm seeing a pretty major hole in that logic.
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They're called reasons. I know some of us need to feel superior to others to cope with getting through life, but frankly all I'm seeing is a bunch of people looking for others to target.
what about smokers or drinkers or paragliders or those with exotic sexual tastes?
There is a vast increase in the treatment of sexual transmitted diseases in this country. Should people who have unsafe sex be bared treatment? Could you spell out which groups of people is it OK to treat?
I have a complete school photograph from 1969 - only one pupil looks significantly overweight from a total of about 400. I cannot believe that would be the same now.
There is a vast increase in the treatment of sexual transmitted diseases in this country. Should people who have unsafe sex be bared treatment? Could you spell out which groups of people is it OK to treat?
If the position was "we won't operate till you're thinner, so we've prescribed you a dietician and a gym membership" then I'd be all in favour of it. But it isn't. It's "sod off and lose weight or we won't fix your hip". Quite how someone is supposed to do enough exercise to lose weight when their hip doesn't work doesn't seem to have been considered.
Where have I suggested they shouldn't receive treatment? I have little sympathy with people who actively put their own health in danger for no good reason but I would not suggest they shouldn't receive treatment.
The post and news article it was discussing was discussing elective surgery.
In that case, how do we properly motivate them to lose weight? If the problem is in the mind then having a go at people will hardly make them better. It'd be like telling a person with depression to "just stop feeling so sad".AlterEgo said:It is fat people's fault they are fat, and only they are able to lose weight. We should be frank, honest and pragmatic about that.
In that case, how do we properly motivate them to lose weight? If the problem is in the mind then having a go at people will hardly make them better. It'd be like telling a person with depression to "just stop feeling so sad".
In that case, how do we properly motivate them to lose weight? If the problem is in the mind then having a go at people will hardly make them better. It'd be like telling a person with depression to "just stop feeling so sad".
PHILIPE said:Who do you believe ? Recently have heard one so-called expert say that sugar was responsible for obesity and another so-called expert saying that it isn't sugar but fat that is to blame. I thought it was dependent on the calorie intake.
As for activity levels, I can only say that the PE I received as school put me off exercise and sport until well into my mid-20s. As I was slow and couldn't catch a ball (defective sight in one eye) I was essentially routinely humilated.
I resent paying money to scrape some mid-life crisis bloke off the road and put him back together when he's been riding his motorbike at 90mph on the A65.
Or the sort of idiots who go climbing Ben Nevis in trainers then need treatment for two broken legs and hypothermia.
If the position was "we won't operate till you're thinner, so we've prescribed you a dietician and a gym membership" then I'd be all in favour of it. But it isn't. It's "sod off and lose weight or we won't fix your hip". Quite how someone is supposed to do enough exercise to lose weight when their hip doesn't work doesn't seem to have been considered.
Who do you believe ? Recently have heard one so-called expert say that sugar was responsible for obesity and another so-called expert saying that it isn't sugar but fat that is to blame. I thought it was dependent on the calorie intake.
Who do you believe ? Recently have heard one so-called expert say that sugar was responsible for obesity and another so-called expert saying that it isn't sugar but fat that is to blame. I thought it was dependent on the calorie intake.
Ah yes - when you hear a vastly oversimplified version of what the experts have said and they seem to contradict, it's obviously sensible to conclude that all experts have no idea what they're on about! This kind of arrogance is absolutely astounding, but sadly all too common at the moment.
If you hear something scientific that seems to not make much sense, you have 3 options:
1) All the experts are incompetent.
2) All the experts are in a giant conspiracy to deceive you.
3) The experts know something you don't.
Hint: it's option 3.
Sugar, fat and calorie intake are not 3 completely distinct things with nothing to link them. If you don't know that, you have absolutely no business casting doubt on people who've spent years studying this stuff.
To be fair to him a lot of people get their info from the press and the press pick and choose who and what they quote so when we ask "Who do we trust" the answer is "Not the experts" just because of what they picked and chose.
And compounded by the fact that some newspapers would call someone an expert when they really aren't.
To be fair to him a lot of people get their info from the press and the press pick and choose who and what they quote so when we ask "Who do we trust" the answer is "Not the experts" just because of what they picked and chose. I suspect that most of us know a full English with cheese on toast as a side isn't great to eat every day for breakfast but the press keep pulling out stories about Power Lifters and saying "The specialists say eggs are alright now" with no form of context.
Are you old enough to remember the phrase used in an advertisement quite a few years ago...."Go to work on an egg"?
Or for Lankyline above.."You're never alone with a Strand"![]()
I've heard of "do the Strand" by Roxy music, but never a cigarette by that name, certainly not in Marlboro country![]()
Who do you believe ? Recently have heard one so-called expert say that sugar was responsible for obesity and another so-called expert saying that it isn't sugar but fat that is to blame. I thought it was dependent on the calorie intake.
Or for Lankyline above.."You're never alone with a Strand"![]()
And compounded again by people calling themselves experts when they really aren't.
Dietitians can only register and call themselves dieticians with appropriate qualifications, and it is a protected name, meaning only qualified people can use the name. Calling yourself a dietitian without qualifications is an offence.
Nutritonists, on the other hand, have no such regulation: anyone can call themselves a nutritionist, and frequently do. As shown with "Doctor" Gillian McKeith, a woman whose PhD (in "holistic nutrition") was from a non-accredited US college and who has been so comprehensively debunked by Dr Ben Goldacre.