You still haven’t really said *how* I can manage space.
Take A1M junction 8, joining the motorway heading south. You will come off a multi-lane roundabout, where two lanes from the roundabout feed onto a short two-lane slip road (inclined), both of which merge to feed into the two-lane motorway.
The roundabout is traffic-light controlled, so the likelihood is that unless you’re the first one at the lights, you’re going to be following other vehicles.
If vehicles in front of you choose to ascend the slip road at 30 mph, as many do, what realistic options do you have? Bearing in mind that if you want to drop back to create space, you will be having to severely reduce speed, and are guaranteed to have vehicles passing you in the other lane, who will then merge in front of you at the top of the slip road. Furthermore, if you hang back enough to create space to be able to join at the same speed the motorway traffic is going, you *will* encounter aggression.
What happens in practice is that people already on the motorway see the shambles that is traffic approaching on the slip road, so most people tend to move into the right-hand lane to create space. So you then get people doing 50 pulling into the overtaking lane, to make room for people joining at 30. Every now and then it goes wrong and there’s an accident, and pretty much every morning peak this section of motorway suffers prolonged congestion as the motorway gets progressively slower and slower until grinding to a halt.
What I try and do is engineer things so that I’m first off the traffic lights, but this only works to a point, as you may well still encounter someone in front of you coming from the other direction.
Meanwhile, there’s a load more houses just been granted permission in the vicinity of this junction, so certainly not going to get better. The reality is many of these layouts date from times when there was a lot less traffic, and measures added since such as traffic lights mean traffic is nearly always bunched up.