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The independent inquiry into allegations of sexual harassment and bullying within TSSA has now concluded.

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The fact that she worded that paragraph as she did?
Neither you nor Helena Kennedy have mentioned ham sandwiches in the report or your reply to it. That doesn’t mean either of you think they don’t exist, or have some superiority or inferiority to other things that exist. The same principle applies here.
 
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Neither you nor Helena Kennedy have mentioned ham sandwiches in the report or your reply to it. That doesn’t mean either of you think they don’t exist, or have some superiority or inferiority to other things that exist. The same principle applies here.
To me, that paragraph suggests that either Helena Kennedy cannot conceive of a man being the victim of sexual harassment or has chosen, or been instructed, to consider only cases with female victims. That might not have been the impression she intended to convey, but I find it hard to see how it could have been accidental.

How do you explain her choice of words?
 

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To me, that paragraph suggests that either Helena Kennedy cannot conceive of a man being the victim of sexual harassment or has chosen, or been instructed, to consider only cases with female victims. That might not have been the impression she intended to convey, but I find it hard to see how it could have been accidental.

How do you explain her choice of words?
How I explain it is that this particular report only pertains to cases with male aggressors and women victims. Therefore Helena has written the report in such a way that pertains only to the cases under advisement.

It’s not to say that other instances of abuse don’t exist, but to include them would not only muddle the report but serve as a distraction for readers of it. (Oh, well it was only women getting abuse, there’s no other kinds of abuse going on, let’s just ignore it, that kind of response)

It’s not nice to believe these things happen and that members of a group you may feel part of are responsible for them, I know, but on both counts, they are. And the important thing, as with all forms of abuse, is stopping them. Whether those abuses are acknowledged or not is less relevant
 

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How I explain it is that this particular report only pertains to cases with male aggressors and women victims. Therefore Helena has written the report in such a way that pertains only to the cases under advisement.
Except the section in question is one that talks about sexual harassment broadly, not in the specific context of the TSSA.
 

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Congratulations to the posters getting more offended at how Helena Kennedy awkwardly worded a paragraph than at how women were systematically harassed by their employer.
 

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Congratulations to the posters getting more offended at how Helena Kennedy awkwardly worded a paragraph than at how women people were systematically harassed by their employer.

Fixed that for you.

I was attempting to point out what a previous poster apparently couldn't understand rather than expressing offence. The wording is, in my view, unfortunate at least. Some people seem blind to harassment of men and boys.
 

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Fixed that for you.

I was attempting to point out what a previous poster apparently couldn't understand rather than expressing offence. The wording is, in my view, unfortunate at least. Some people seem blind to harassment of men and boys.
Where in the report does it say men were sexually harassed at TSSA?
 

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. Some people seem blind to harassment of men and boys.
I completely agree that this is a concern on a general level, but is there any evidence and/or suggestion that this may have taken place at TSSA?
 

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That's my point. The possibility that some may have been seems not to have been considered.
The report was put into place because women reported it was an unsafe place to work because of sexual harassment from men!

If there’d been a complaint that women at the union were systematically abusing and harassing men and causing them to feel unsafe you’d have a point. But there wasn’t, and you don’t.
 

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The report was put into place because women reported it was an unsafe place to work because of sexual harassment from men!

If there’d been a complaint that women at the union were systematically abusing and harassing men and causing them to feel unsafe you’d have a point. But there wasn’t, and you don’t.
Maybe any male victims are too frightened to come forward and make a complaint? Or maybe they don't regard being treated in exactly the same way as the female complainants as abuse or harassment?

The terms of reference were too narrow, i think.

I don't condone any of this kind of behaviour but feel strongly that everyone deserves the same protection.
 

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Maybe any male victims are too frightened to come forward and make a complaint? Or maybe they don't regard being treated in exactly the same way as the female complainants as abuse or harassment?

The terms of reference were too narrow, i think.

I don't condone any of this kind of behaviour but feel strongly that everyone deserves the same protection.

I’d generally agree, in particular the following paragraphs:

I took on this Inquiry in the knowledge that sexual harassment and assault rarely exist in isolation. They occur in environments that tolerate, or support, misogynistic attitudes. They occur on a spectrum, where at one end there is ‘banter;’ at the other end, the most egregious forms of male violence, including rape and domestic abuse. In my mind, ‘banter’ can never be harmless if it in any way denigrates, objectifies or humiliates women. And sexual harassment should be called out for what it is – an
Baroness Helena Kennedy KC 2

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abuse of power derived from patriarchal systems - that harms not only the immediate victim, but all women. Every story of male abuse, however ‘minor,’ serves to make women more cautious, more reserved, less likely to put themselves forward - to be activists or take on leadership roles. Men who become disinhibited through alcohol and ‘get too friendly’ with a woman in the pub, perhaps placing a hand on a knee or whispering in their ear, are not doing something innocuous. They are creating layers of harm not just to that woman – but to all women. There is no excuse in the 21st century to be ignorant of this fact. I also want to make it clear that misogyny is not the sole preserve of men. There are women who have internalised the notion that the way to thrive, particularly in male dominated environments, is to adopt certain behaviours, mimicking the worst of male machismo. So, both men and women can be accomplices in ‘keeping women in their place,’ or ensuring their ongoing subordination in the workplace or wider society

Seem to contemplate that this kind of abuse can only occur in the context of a patriarchal system. It could have been written in a more neutral way. The issue of concern is abuse, not only “male abuse”.
 

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I'm not so sure. Sexual harassment isn't part of the "union baron" stereotype, and this report has nothing to do with things like calling strikes against union members' wishes.

Sexual harrassment isn't but the mafia culture would be.
It fits the stereotype that union bosses are more interested in looking after themselves rather than their members, if not being contemptuous to their members (spending subs on paying off Cortes and work time drinking sessions).
And when the accusation from socialists is that the Tories are corrupt and socially regressive it helps the Tories say that the socialists are just as bad - ie the Animal Farm references.
 

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Maybe any male victims are too frightened to come forward and make a complaint? Or maybe they don't regard being treated in exactly the same way as the female complainants as abuse or harassment?

The terms of reference were too narrow, i think.

I don't condone any of this kind of behaviour but feel strongly that everyone deserves the same protection.
Yes, but there’s no evidence of a culture of women sexually harassing the male members of staff at the TSSA whatsoever. Are you able to provide any?

What else? Maybe there’s racism there too and you’re upset Helena Kennedy didn’t comment on it? Who knows? Is there evidence of the same? Is there actually anything there to investigate? Why bring it up if there’s no evidence or complaint of the same?

I think it’s pathetic that any man can read a report where women are systemically denigrated, harassed, sexually assaulted, called “useless c**ts”, touched, given “f*** off letters”, called morons, routinely dehumanised with sexist jokes, and the whole sorry show - and then ask in a small voice:

“but what if a man got sexually harassed by a woman there?”

Really? That’s the takeaway from that? No wonder the railway and its unions have this problem.
 

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I think it’s pathetic that any man can read a report where women are systemically denigrated, harassed, sexually assaulted, called “useless c**ts”, touched, given “f*** off letters”, called morons, routinely dehumanised with sexist jokes, and the whole sorry show - and then ask in a small voice:
The bits in bold were not specific to female staff were they?
 

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Yes, but there’s no evidence of a culture of women sexually harassing the male members of staff at the TSSA whatsoever. Are you able to provide any?
No, the inquiry didn't look for any so it didn't find any.

I'm disappointed that anyone can read a report about such misbehaviour towards women and not wonder whether any men were similarly treated.
 

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Why didn’t it look for it, do you think?
I don't know, but maybe because, as I suggested upthread

that paragraph suggests that either Helena Kennedy cannot conceive of a man being the victim of sexual harassment or has chosen, or been instructed, to consider only cases with female victims.

I should probably have said 'allegations from females towards males' rather than 'female victims'


We seem to be going round in circles.
 

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No, the inquiry didn't look for any so it didn't find any.

I'm disappointed that anyone can read a report about such misbehaviour towards women and not wonder whether any men were similarly treated.
I disagree factually. Considering all the interviews that were done and contributions made I would suggest that if men were being sexually discriminated against then it would have been found and reported.
I think its valid to point out the slightly biased tone of Kennedy's language, but the nature and scale of the results is such that her bias would make little difference to the outcome.
For a start it sounds like much of the evidence of the behaviour toward women came from male witnesses, including those who had tried to subtly stop it.
 

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I don't know, but maybe because, as I suggested upthread



We seem to be going round in circles.
The reason she didn’t interview any witnesses to see if there was a sexual harassment culture from the (minority) of women staff towards the majority of men staff is because there was literally no evidence or complaint that it was the case.

That’s the same reason her report doesn’t look into allegations of racism, animal abuse, ageism or religious discrimination. They weren’t in the terms of reference.

The overwhelming issue is that male members of staff were empowered, by other men (and some women), to behave in an appalling way towards women, with behaviour verging on the criminal. A male witness said at length how he felt the organisation was an unsafe place for women.

It doesn’t sound like the sort of place where there was a culture of systematic abuse of men, by women. That’s what the report is about - the culture, not individual incidents that might have happened once or whatever.
 

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I disagree factually. Considering all the interviews that were done and contributions made I would suggest that if men were being sexually discriminated against then it would have been found and reported.
I think its valid to point out the slightly biased tone of Kennedy's language, but the nature and scale of the results is such that her bias would make little difference to the outcome.
For a start it sounds like much of the evidence of the behaviour toward women came from male witnesses, including those who had tried to subtly stop it.
A gender-neutral preamble and a statement that there had been no complaints or evidence of abuse or harassment toward men would have removed any doubt and I would be much happier.
 

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A gender-neutral preamble and a statement that there had been no complaints or evidence of abuse or harassment toward men would have removed any doubt and I would be much happier.
Seriously, I am a long way from woke and your suggestion still sounds really weird to me, and an attempt to discredit the report and avoid confronting the issues.
 

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Where in the report does it say men were sexually harassed at TSSA?
As I have stated multiple tiimes, I am criticising the section of the report that is talking about sexual harassment etc. generally, not just the incidences of such in the TSSA.
 

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As I have stated multiple tiimes, I am criticising the section of the report that is talking about sexual harassment etc. generally, not just the incidences of such in the TSSA.
And you’ve said you don’t have faith in the report as a result, and have discredited it.
 

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Goodness me - some people show their true colours on this kind of thing! This report is into reported sexual harassment of women by male figures of seniority. Have a think why there is no suggestion or mention of men being harassed. It might be, because as you suggest, they are scared or embarrassed to come forward. Perhaps it was because there wasn't any evidence because this was an issue of men harassing women within a leadership culture that facilitated that ! I suspect the later is the reality. It is clear some posters here don't.

Stop being so fragile about this sort of thing and address the issues. I know for certain men are sexually harassed by both men and women. They weren't here. Deal with that point.
 

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Seriously, I am a long way from woke and your suggestion still sounds really weird to me, and an attempt to discredit the report and avoid confronting the issues.
Nope, not discrediting what the report says (apart from the biased preamble). Just saying it may be incomplete.
Goodness me - some people show their true colours on this kind of thing! This report is into reported sexual harassment of women by male figures of seniority. Have a think why there is no suggestion or mention of men being harassed. It might be, because as you suggest, they are scared or embarrassed to come forward. Perhaps it was because there wasn't any evidence because this was an issue of men harassing women within a leadership culture that facilitated that ! I suspect the later is the reality. It is clear some posters here don't.

Stop being so fragile about this sort of thing and address the issues. I know for certain men are sexually harassed by both men and women. They weren't here. Deal with that point.
That's my point. We don't know whether any men were harassed, and the preamble appears to suggest that the possibility wasn't considered.
 

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We don't know whether any men were harassed, and the preamble appears to suggest that the possibility wasn't considered.
Even if you were correct that it wasn't considered are you suggesting Kennedy would have hidden it if it had come up in the interviews?
 

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That's my point. We don't know whether any men were harassed, and the preamble appears to suggest that the possibility wasn't considered
Was there any suggestions or allegations made of this nature?
 

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That's my point. We don't know whether any men were harassed, and the preamble appears to suggest that the possibility wasn't considered.
because no evidence was presented to the investigation! The report was commissioned to investigate alleged harassment of women by men based upon evidence presented. This is not a report into possibilities. It is a report into specific allegations.

Your stance is that when presented with allegations of burglary the police should investigate murder, just in case!

As is set out above: Black Lives Matter does not equal White Lives Don't Matter
 
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