After wading through several unneccesary question marks and exclamation points (you only need to use one per sentence, any more and you start to look ridiculous, nine is rather over the top), and ignoring the rhetorical questions, I've found nothing except you jumping to a rather stretched conclusion. I asked a genuine question, and didn't once say that the railway was at fault. I was just surprised that things went tits up to the extent that they did.
Thanks to the other posters for your helpful answers
As I see it, the genuine question you asked was why the British Rail network fails to cope with bad weather when other countries do.
My experience is that other countries suffer similar problems to us. (I have no experience of Scandinavia, so can only go on personal experiences).
As an example, the Dutch network was heavily affected yesterday with lots of cancellations due to the storm. NS issued a not to travel/expect disruption alert on Wednesday evening.
The disruption yesterday was probably one of the worst since storms in autumn 2001. My recollection is that there were 2 bad days, with the British network effectively shutting down on the Monday (I am happy for someone to correct me on this or highlight more recent ones - possibly the London bombings as this had a major affect on the London terminals that day).
That weekend I was attempting to travel from Rotterdam to Munich, departing about 0830 on Sunday with planned arrival of 1830. The journey was a nightmare due to high winds and trees on the line in various places on both the Dutch and German networks, with an eventual arrival of 0300 on the Monday morning.
The German and Dutch networks suffer in snow as well. December 2009 - when the Channel Tunnel was shut (snow), Dutch network closed down for a day or December 2010 - delayed 3 hours on a 2 hour journey from Munich to Salzburg, again a result of snow (in an area that gets a lot of it).
One of the reasons that things went so bad yesterday was due to the number of obstructions on the line(s) that needed removing. The unfortunate thing is that staff are never in the right place at the right time, or are dealing with another incident. Staffing levels in the rail industry are just about adequate for normal operation, but when there is disruption on this scale they become stretched.
Other issues faced were damaged station buildings, interruptions to power supplies (UK power as opposed to OLE), trees falling onto the overheads disabling electric traction.
TOCs put in contingency plans when these happen, but with all the will in the world they are not a 2 minute job to implement.
Of course yesterday, plans were put in but then the 'open' sections of line were hit by more debris throwing these into disarray and it becomes a creeping death scenario.